S-E-X! It may be good for your heart, great for
your mood and even work wonders on your skin, but
not all types offer the same benefits.
Sometimes s*x can make a bad situation worse and leave you
wishing you hadn’t wasted your good underwear & clean
sheets on a brief fling with s*xual mediocrity.
Here are the 4 types of s*x to avoid at all cost.
Break-Up s*x: It may seem appealing to take one last ride
on that pony for old time’s sake, but the consequences will
likely outweigh the benefits. You’re breaking up, which means
something isn’t working. And even if s*x isn’t the cause of
your break-up, it can complicate an already delicate situation.
For instance, it’s easy for your partner to misconstrue your
intentions. When it comes to break-up s*x, you don’t want
your “It has been a pleasure doing business with you,” to be
misinterpreted for a “Thank you. Come again!” Even if you’re
the type who makes your intentions crystal clear, science still
offers warnings against break-up s*x. Romantic rejection
and heartbreak trigger the same parts of the brain associated
with pain, distress and addiction. It takes time to reduce these
triggers and when the wound is fresh, you don’t want to train
your body to link s*x with these conditions.
Drunk s*x: A few drinks may loosen you up and help you to
shed your inhibitions, but be sure to limit how many glasses
you down as you may end up shedding and downing more than
you bargained for. “Bottom’s up” may be in good fun at the
bar, but you need to decide whether you’re open to letting it
take on a whole new meaning bedside. If you plan on drinking,
bear in mind that alcohol impairs your judgment. Booze goggles
not only cause light-of-day regret the following morning, but
also reduce the likelihood of using condoms and other safer
s*x tools – so plan ahead. And that liquid confidence may
seemingly improve your performance on the dance floor, but it
can have the opposite effect sexually. Alcohol impacts your
body’s s*xual response and circulation making erections and
lubrication harder to come by.
Self-Pity s*x (The One Night Stand): If you’re having a
little pity party for yourself and think that a one-night stand
will elevate your spirits, you may want to think again –
especially if you’re a woman. While a one-time roll in the hay
(or nightclub restroom stall) can be fun for some, women
seem to get the short end of the stick when it comes to
casual s*x. And the short sticks aren’t to blame. Research
shows that over half (54 per cent) of women often feel
disappointed by one-night stands and report high levels of
regret the morning after. On the other hand, 80 per cent of
men feel positively about the experience and say that it helps
them to blow off some steam. Steam? Is that what they’re
calling it these days? So before you take the plunge and turn
to casual s*x to lift your spirits, be sure to consider other
ways to crash the pity party.
Make-Up s*x: Experts are split on this one and you can
decide for yourself whether make-up s*x works for you.
Some psychologists believe that it rewards fighting, drama
and generally bad behaviour. They suggest that couples are
dealing with intensely negative emotions and instead of finding
a resolution, they seek an opposite experience (pleasure) in
s*x. They argue that this type of s*x isn’t “real intimacy” and
that it can lead to loneliness and the belief that everything can
be fixed with s*x. What a world it would be if this were true!
If you find yourself enticed by these four types of s*x, you
may want to take a moment to reconsider. And if you’re still
tempted, at least consider the laundry!
Source: MSN
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