Secrets from men: 7 things that will make a man refuse to marry you

If a man is going through things,
  he wants
  to believe his woman has his back through
thick and thin. You want to feel beautiful,
he wants to feel like a king.
My male friends and I were talking the other day
about marriage. We don’t talk about it the way
women do, fantasizing and getting all excited
about our wedding day.
 Instead, we talk about it
like picking a career – you know you’re going to be
stuck with it, it can be enjoyable, but you had better
tread lightly or
it could end up in disaster.
I thought I’d share with women a few
things that my friends said we did NOT want in a
wife. Take it or leave it, but here’s what most of us
really do dislike:
1) A high-maintenance woman.
 It might be
okay to be a little bit of a gold digger, but high
maintenance means that nothing is ever good
enough. You buy her something that costs $1,000
dollars, she barely says thank you. She might also
be the kind of emotional black hole who is never
satisfied or happy no matter what he says or does
to make things better. That’s draining for men,
and flat out horrible.
2) A woman who is bad with kids.
A woman’s
beauty is captured in her ability to nurture. The
woman who says “I hate kids” is seen as less of a
woman in the eyes of a lot of men. It also makes
her look selfish.
3) A woman who doesn’t support you.
 If a
man is going through things, he wants to believe
his woman has his back through thick and thin.
You want to feel beautiful, he wants to feel like a
king. If he’s ridiculed or his dreams aren’t
supported, then he will probably gravitate toward
the woman who helps boost his ego, listens to him
and encourages him, just like his mother used to
do.
4) A woman who emasculates you or
doesn’t respect gender roles:
Feminism is
nice, but a lot of hardcore feminists are either gay
or single. You can have power in your household
and still allow the man to be a man. If you’re
constantly ordering him around or not respecting
his manhood, then he will feel that you don’t need
him. So, the strong, independent woman who
“don’t need no man” may lose her man because he
is convinced that she “don’t need him” just like she
said.
5) Bad in the bedroom.
 If you ask a man what
time it is, he’s probably going to say, “It’s sexx
o’clock.” Men are physical creatures, and good
loving can make a man do pretty much whatever
you want. But being frigid, disinterested,
unenthusiastic or not concerned about his physical
needs will make other women look that much more
inviting. He definitely won’t want to lock himself
into a relationship with you, that’s for sure. It
would be miserable for him.
6) Doesn’t get along with your family.
 No
man wants to bring home a woman that his family
hates; she becomes like a virus. Smile, be nice, be
helpful, try to get along with everyone if you can
and that makes him envision you as a regular
visitor to his family gatherings. If you can’t do that,
then find another man with a better family.
7) Really mean and overly moody/b_tchy.
Most of my friends hate women who don’t smile or
are always mad about everything. It sucks. A
smiling woman who listens to his problems, tells
him that he’s special, has his back and drops it
ferociously in the bedroom can get him hooked.
You want to be that woman.
Take it or leave it, this is what we said.
 What you
do with this information is entirely up to you